Recently there was an incident which brought me back to reality of what friendship really is bout and why i dont have many close frens.
Anyways to keep the story short, lets name the bride Celest and her fren Vinet. So Celest knew Vinet via the WWW and they became close friends and when Celest was to be married, she picked the one that was closest to her, Vinet to be her Maid of Honour (MOH).
Everything was going smoothly until the wedding was very close. Something happened at Celest Hen's Night and basically their friendship went down the drain. Being so close to the wedding, i guess what we all would have done was shut one eye patch up and move on. But no, Celest didnt.
She took her school buddy, let call her Bunny to become the MOH without even informing Vinet. Safe to say, Celest didnt include Vinet in any bridal activities from then on. While all this was happening, Celest still maintained on her wedding website for about a week after her wedding that Vinet was her MOH.
[Update: The wedding website details of the MOH have since been changed since this post]
And can you imagine, when Vinet went for her wedding dinner, everyone still thought that she was the MOH. But horrors upon horror when Bunny's name was mentioned as the MOH during the Thank You speech!!!
Can u imagine the shame and humiliation that Vinet went through, all eyes darting to her, everyone wondering what had happened. Even Vinet was at a shock as she still thought she was the MOH.
The story doesnt end there, Vinet didnt make a scene at the wedding and just continued having "fun".
Truth be told, Vinet dint not understand why Celest reacted this what as Vinet had always been asking where she could help with the wedding. Celest had even told Vinet that she did not want her to do anything except be the relaxed MOH who would walk with her on the wedding day.
When the wedding was over and done with, the bride who calls herself a "celebrity blogger" trashed Vinet indirectly and directly on her Facebook, Twits and Blog!!!!! And still does that till today. Celest even removed her from her Blog link showing a totally immature reaction.
While all this was happening, Celest's hubby even asked Vinet on MSN why Vinet wasnt talking to Celest and what had happened to thier friednship.
Morale of the story is, you can never ever trust someone no matter how close you are with them. Vinet made a big misake here for trusting Celest although she received numerous warning about Celest and ask her to stay away from Celest. Vinet took the rish of knowing Celest rather than listening to rumous out there and therefore endured this painfull and hurtfull stabbings.
Tough there is some people who you can trust your life with. But this so called celeb blogger..(geez people would never admit being a celeb blogger)..is someone who you should stay away from as everything is bout her.
And guys im not the only one who has seen this many people have alread been hurt and "played" by her.
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2 comments:
i think i know who you're talking about. i wonder what did vinet do to make celest so bent on humiliating her.
i believe that vinet did not do anytihng do spoil the friendship and vinet tried her best to fulfill whatever celest requesting for but only god knows the truth which vinet refused to share just to save celest face. However i do believe that humiliating someone in that manner is totally uncalled for.we all are grown up now, we should know what to do and what not.
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